have already posted this in Childbirth, but there's more traffic over here...
Basically, I am high risk due to 'advance maternal age' in this pregnancy - I'm 40. Saw my consultant a couple of months ago when she explained the risks / their policy to me re age (I have also seen the research). I told her about my fears of induction/intervention (after last time) and she said that as long as I was aware of the risks, it was my choice and that I could have daily monitoring from 39-41w instead if I prefer. Agreed we'd discuss at 37w.
Have thought about this a lot and unless there is a real reason ie something showing as being wrong with me or the baby, I don't want to be induced unnecessarily. My midwife thinks it's over the top too and she quite rightly said that there are risks with all pregnancies/births and that I am a 'young', fit and healthy 40 - she said she's seen women in their 20's who were much less so!
Anyway, just been for my 37w appt - only it wasn't same cons I saw before, it was her registrar and he just wouldn't listen to anything I had to say. He was insistent on trying to book me in for an induction at 39w and gave me such a look when I said thanks, but no thanks.
In the end we agreed that I would see the cons again at 39w instead, to have a sweep then if favourable, and then go from there (am getting DH to come with me for that one so he can help me stand up to them as I tend to back down around medical professionals which is what happened last time).
Am really hoping I go spontaneously in the meantime though as baby is already engaged and I have had a bit of a bloody show. I really want to deliver in the birthing unit, in the pool if possible, but he said I can't if I'm induced...
Has anyone else had this?