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Does your dh find you sexy in pregnancy?

31 replies

middleclassdystopia · 12/01/2014 19:34

My dh seems to find me more sexy/attractive despite my rapidly expanding bump, varicose veins etc

It does help me to get through the bad bits of pregnancy but I also find it a bit strange. Doesn't this huge tummy with a baby wriggling about in it put him off? It puts me off! But he seems to want sex more, not less.

Just wondered what other's experiences are.

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twinklexx · 13/01/2014 11:29

No in a word.
We haven't had sex since i poas. I am now 38weeks!! Apparently it's weird due to the baby being there. I am Envy of the rest of you

Pixielady83 · 13/01/2014 12:00

I don't think DH found me unsexy in my first pregnancy, more he was freaked out by the baby inside! So we didn't DTD after 12 weeks which I was very Angry about until I got SPD and then I was just grateful Grin

This pregnancy he is far more relaxed so we have had more sex, but I just can't be bothered. I think whereas I was stressed we might never have sex again last time, I now know that once everything has settled down, your sex drive does come back and I'm ok with having a few months off!

Emilycee · 13/01/2014 12:29

Yes hubby still up for it - more so in fact because we are having it less now. I am 28 weeks, have put 3 stone on already and feel like a big slow moving whale! So I feel less and less in the mood as the weeks go on.

MrsPatMustard · 13/01/2014 17:23

He claims yes, but i suspect this is a white lie to try and make me feel better about my rather walrus-like pregnancy shape. He's very nervous about disturbing the baby during sex, even though I've told him a dozen times there's no risk.

Am 38 weeks and so vast now that sex has become less of a thrill and more of a logistical challenge...

Plateofcrumbs · 13/01/2014 17:33

The first thing DH did when I told him I was pregnant was pounce on me, so I'll take that as a yes! Grin Still fairly early days yet so remains to be seen what he makes of the pregnancy body, but so far I think we're both finding the whole making-a-baby-together thing good for intimacy.

Starballbunny · 13/01/2014 17:34

Yes, it's how DD1 avoided being induced Grin

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