Your bump at 20 weeks!

[Hellymummy]

I'm getting concerned about my bump, it just seems small and just looks like a big overweight flabby belly!!! What's everyone else's like? It's not hard either still soft and podgy!!!

I really wouldn't worry. I am 18 weeks and I am massive..! Everyone keeps commenting on how "Big" I am and "are you sure there's not two in there" which is equally annoying!
With my first I was significantly smaller at this point. I cannot fit in any of my jeans or tops and its so frustrating so enjoy having a smaller bump for now. Think im going to have an elephant baby..!

I think I was about 20 weeks when I realised I had two choices. Wear lose clothes and look like I'd eaten All The Cake or wear tight fitting clothes and look pregnant. It very much depended on my clothes as to whether it looked like bump or bloat. I'm vain, so I went with the tight clothes!

Even now (26 weeks) it's a very definite bump but it changes minute to minute whether it's hard or soft. Or pointy or round. Depends what weird thing the baby's doing.