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Miscarried today <\3

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junebaby2014 · 11/11/2013 18:14

Anyone going through this just now?

Today i had slight bleeding when i woke up.
I was averaging at 10 weeks as per doctors visit.
Scan showing today 7 weeks 5 days but no heart beat :'(
They say this bleeding is the early stages of miscarriage.
But had no bleeding since that one toilet visit this morning.

Anyone been given false hope and been told theyv miscarried and weeks later have a healthy beating heart?

Anyone any advice on when the bleeding and pain will start for baby to pass?

I am so confused and dont want to believe it.
I'm 24 next week and this is just the worst news and shock i have ever experienced!

Can't seem to find threads on here, can anyone help me and put my own little heart to rest

xox

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Katiejon · 12/11/2013 00:03

I missed miscarried oct 2012.
My baby boy is now 2 weeks old.
Just take each day, each hour, as it comes.
Heartbeat at 8 weeks and then a little bleeding a week later. Scan revealed no heartbeat.
I had lots of support cos we told people after seeing a heartbeat.
Lots of women at DD's school told me their stories and I realised that miscarrying really is as common as sneezing!
Still upset about it.
Counselling at local hospital Royal Free Hampstead was wonderful.

Peppapigisnotmyname · 12/11/2013 12:20

I've had two, first one was twins, lost one at six weeks and the other age eight weeks. I was distraught. I another one a year later, 7 weeks. Three months later I was pregnant again - dd is neatly five now :). Those mc days were dark days for me. I will never forget but I got through it and so wii you xx

Heatherbell1978 · 12/11/2013 15:16

Hi junebaby2014

I'm currently sitting at home going through this. Confirmed yesterday that I'm miscarrying our 6+3 wk baby. Started bleeding on Sunday with some mild cramping and was keeping fingers crossed it was implantation pains or something but had a scan at the EPU yesterday and confirmed there was a sac but nothing in it so things probably stopped 2 weeks ago. My hubbie and I had just started trying a couple of months ago and were so happy with a positive test as we're both almost 36 and had no idea how fertile we were. Totally gutted and feeling very sorry for myself lying at home watching crap on TV but we're keen to start trying as soon as we can again and fingers crossed this time.

It's a really painful time though so hug to everyone in the same boat xx

MsFiremanSam · 12/11/2013 18:15

So very sorry OP. Thinking of you. BrewThanks

puntasticusername · 12/11/2013 22:29

No advice here, but didn't want to read and run. Very sorry to hear your news. Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks

junebaby2014 · 13/11/2013 19:34

Aw gosh so sad for us all ??

Well my miscarriage was on Monday the early stages.
Bleeding is very light maybe changing a pad twice a day if that..

I am not great with pain and i dont think my partner would like to see me go through this pain we have suffered enough on monday finding out our babys heartbeat stopped!

D & C seems to be my option..
Pain free, has anyone had this or know of any stories?
The risks are of course puncturing your whom? But iv been told this is like 1 in 1000, plus people have c sections every day and carry on to have more children and thats cutting and stitching the whom back together!

I'm so scared either way! Any advise would be appreciated! ??

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KatAndKit · 14/11/2013 07:09

I had a d&c and it was a quick and simple procdure. The pain after wasno worse than mild period pain and the bleeding less than a week. Emotionally it takes a lot longer, but physically i recovered fast.

Whiteclouds · 14/11/2013 21:54

hi, was just wondering how you are doing ? hope you're getting lots of support and are being kind to yourself.

junebaby2014 · 15/11/2013 21:16

Hello

The sac passed today ?? was the most painful horrific thing i have ever gone through!

Feeling a lot better physically just feel completely empty now ??

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Whiteclouds · 16/11/2013 19:51

It's horrible. It drains you physically and emotionally . Do rest up and take some time off work to recover. Thinking of you. Hugs

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