I am 29 weeks old pregnant and this is my 2nd pregnancy; with the 1st there was a pattern and I could tell when my baby is asleep, when she is awake and when she is hungry with kicks, no kick and when I've not eaten. However, this pregnancy is different because I've been through a lot and a lot still going on; all I can say is that I don't get enough fresh air because people don't want us alive. I am in Lagos Nigeria Africa and there is a limit to healthcare treatment here; this is not normal I know but can somebody please help us???