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I really need some help plz

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Nosh21 · 17/05/2013 12:50

Hi I am 10 weeks pregnant, yesterday I had sudden bleeding and clots the size of your palm came out. I have been really worried. As I had period like crampings in my stomach. So I had gone to a&e with the clot wrapped in tissue and showed the nurses. They say that they cannot really tell if it's part of the baby product or just some blood clot. They then did a speculum on me and they said that the cervix is closed. But they cannot be sure until I hav had a scan. So I am booked in for a scan for tommorrow at 9:45am and really hope my baby is still there. As I had a ectopic at 7 weeks last year. And a miscarriage at 15 weeks this year in January. And this is my 3rd pregnancy and I really want it.... Please has anyone experienced this and what happened...

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Alexandra6 · 18/05/2013 12:03

I'm so sorry nosh

Agree with the post above, be kind to yourself, take it easy and don't give up hope x

Wonkytrolley · 18/05/2013 12:12

I'm so sorry Nosh, you must be devastated.

Thinking of you x

HumptyDumptyBumpty · 18/05/2013 12:14

Oh I'm so sorry Nosh. That's awful. Do you have someone with you?

Nosh21 · 18/05/2013 12:16

The people am with they think everything s ok they don't know how I feel..... :(

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Nosh21 · 18/05/2013 12:17

I am devasted ... I really wanted a baby :( it's always happening to me :( .... First ectopic , second miscarriage at 15 weeks and now this ;(

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Ebayaholic · 18/05/2013 12:21

Oh Nosh I'm so sorry, do you have support?

RoxyLady · 18/05/2013 12:24

Pls have faith! I had three miscarriages. One at 13 weeks so I know how horrendous and misheartened you must feel. Its hard to get up and keep going.
I am now 32 weeks pregnant. Take some time to look after yourself. It is possible. If you want to talk more just inbox me. I know exactly what you are going through x

Pentagon · 18/05/2013 12:24

I'm so sorry Nosh, it's devastating I know...I've had 2 missed miscarriages, discovered at my 12 week scan - the babies were there but had died weeks earlier. I'm so sorry you're going through this and I know it doesn't make things any easier but it happens to a lot of women (1 in 4) and you're likely to have a successful pregnancy next time. I have a daughter and I am currently 16 weeks pregnant with number 2 so it can happen. Did you get any support at the hospital? There is also the miscarriage association and also several miscarriage threads here on mumsnet that will help you get through this. Take care of yourself, try again as soon as you feel ready and I'm sure you'll be holding a baby in your arms sooner or later.x

Pentagon · 18/05/2013 12:29

Oh Nosh I've just seen this is not your first pregnancy so what I've said doesn't help much - so sorry :-( but you can now be referred and investigated for recurrent miscarriage if I'm not mistaken. Good luck!

SPK22 · 18/05/2013 12:36

Take care Nosh21. Sending hugs and lots of love.

Nosh21 · 18/05/2013 12:37

I know :( .................
I feel like everything is bad luck for me... :(
Coz I am married to a proper typical asain family and they don't fukawl about anything... Their like "back from hospital , ok. Get up and start working with the chores at home" :( I jus feel am gonna burst and pack my things and hed home to my mums house

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TobyLerone · 18/05/2013 12:38

Can you do that? Go and stay with your mum for a bit?

Nosh21 · 18/05/2013 12:40

They ll be like if you wanna go .. Go for good ... Like starting an argument for no reason :( an am already depressed

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rcs19 · 18/05/2013 19:37

I'm so sorry, Nosh. As others have said, be kind to yourself. I hope you can go and be looked after by your mum without getting any hassle.

GoodbyePorkPie · 18/05/2013 20:31

Oh no, I'm so sorry, Nosh :(

I would go home to your mum's. Sod the fecking chores. If they are so heartless that they actually mean you should leave forever, while you're miscarrying, then I'd be tempted to do so.

Nosh21 · 18/05/2013 21:31

Thanks :/ I think that's wat am gonna do ... Coz it's carrying on for ages now.. And it's duin ma headin... Gonna pak my stuff tomorrow, if not then maybe tonight , I can't stand it ! :(

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Nosh21 · 18/05/2013 23:15

Hey jus wanted to know how soon can you try for another baby after miscarriage???

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LandsN · 18/05/2013 23:21

I had 1 af then fell again I am now 17 weeks pregnant good luck x

MaryannM · 18/05/2013 23:26

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know it's little consolation right now, but do have faith, I've had 5 early losses and am now 26wks pregant with a healthy bump, so there is hope.

Apparently you are most fertile just after a miscarriage, not sure how soon after but it may be worth researching.

Good luck Hun, and be kind to yourself, give yourself time. Take care xxxx

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