I've been trying not to get too upset about this, as it involves one of my best friends, but...
When her son was born, I lent her all of my newborn to 6 month things, except for a very few, very special outfits. I specifically said that I wanted them back. Now that I am pg again, she has no idea where they are!! Thinks she may have given them away 
, is "pretty sure" she didn't sell them 
Dh is blowing it off, saying half the fun is in buying little outfits, but I feel betrayed.