tmi sorry but question about incontance

[Hai1988]

Having been doing pelvic foors but seem to leak pee every time i snezze, cough or even move to suddenly on a full bladder

Am 13+5 with second baba.

Basicly wanna no if this is normal and will i now be like this forever :( ?

Can only speak from personal experience but after dd1 I thought I would have to wear tenna lights forever.... I was rubbish at doing pelvic floors, but even so after a few months the muscles seemed to tighten a bit more and I stopped the need for the tennas. Now on second pregancy I am back to wearing them every day. Sure there is probably a lesson in there somewhere about doing my pelvic floor exercises!

I guess it depends on whether you have been like this since your first baby or whether its got worse since you got pregnant again. If its worse lately it could be the baby hormones so maybe it would get better after the birth. If you have had problems since your first birth then it sounds like it isn't getting better on its own. Either way, midwives or GP can help. I had physio (GP referred me) after DS1 and then eventually had to have an operation after DS2 since it was severe for me...so there is help even when its really bad!