Just after your experiences - due to a change in circumstances, DH and I have decided to start TTC sooner rather than later. I've only just started the folic acid supplements and the recommendation is to take them for 3 months before falling pregnant. Do you think we should just begin the TTC antics anyway?
It's rather unlikely I'll be pg in the next 3 months anyway as I anticipate it taking longer (coming off the pill after a decade on it - eek!)
Did you all follow the recommendations? Am I doomed to be a terrible mother already by considering risking future baby's health? 
Thanks
PC