My DS has done brilliantly & is almost independently doing poos in loo, but will only do them if I am in house - I have to accompany him, wait outside & then he will wipe himself (very messily) & I do last wipe. If I am not around he holds on, or poos in pants. Even DH is not allowed to accompany him..
Going to be in hospital for C section in a few months - dont know what to do. He doesnt even like other people knowing he is going, or hearing him - so goes on different level to everyone else. Have been really open about rest of family doing poos, doesnt help.
Miserable for him, any ideas??