Hi
I have posted on here a few times . Here is brief summary (will try to be brief) of my issues). really need some help on what to do next
Have 2 ds one 6 and one 2. ds 1 potty trained in less than a week used pullups then switched to pants after trained in a week hardly ever had accidents
ds2. Started to train between Xmas and new year as he was showing interest. Used pullups and took him to potty every hour or so and he would do a pee and that was fine. Poos hit or a miss. This has been same now though for past 6 weeks I take him to toilet now as he prefer and he does a pee every hour or so and same at nursry. Has hardly any accidents at home but about one or 2 a day at nursery. Thing is he never comes to tell me I need a pee at all ever maybe once . I always have to ask him, In last few days he got much worse and last night did a pee in his pull up and this am also he knows he has done it as says I need a pee or goes quiet but by I get to toilet it is too late. also not so keen at all now on going to toilet and just says I not need then will pee his pull up. Have tried to be calm with him but got annoyed with him last night as feel he is just not progressing. He is 2 and half and has been really keen to go on potty etc so do not want to go back to nappies. When we will start to tell me he needs in time and not just pee.
Also last weekend he swapped to big boys bed and been more clingy and unsettled over that also. Hence reason I have not gone topants yet as wanted not to do the full on training in pants til he was over his bed thing
any advice on waht to do next. I think he has got lazy to be honest and lost interest and maybe need to go back to making a fuss again when he does pee in toilet maybe and keep taking him regular or what! Also need to swap to pants at somepoint but wanted him having less accidents first.
I just do not understand why he never tells me he needs.
Help
Ellie