dd is 2.7 and clean/dry for 10 months. she has had occasional accidents when playing etc maybe once every couple of months.
in the last week she has wet herself at least twice a day, sometimes she doesnt even tell me, sometimes she messes about going to the toilet fetching a toy and leaves it too late. when out she has had no accidents, even when at the park 2 hours, but in the house she is getting through all her clothes and flooding the carpet.
i tried ignoring it and cleaning up quickly, i tried telling her off, i tried changing clothes once then putting her in pjs, ive threated nappies which she would hate, ive asked her why she wets herself and she said cos i want to and smiled. (self control aaagh!)
she is teething but says her teeth dont hurt, they look very red/swollen.
her bits look red, ive put sudocrem on.
any ideas?