DD showed absolutely no interest in the potty but we pressed ahead when she was 3 and 3 months. She took ages to cotton on and never really got it. She got a bit better over the summer, then went backwards a bit when she started nursery in September, coming home with at least one pair of wet knickers every day. She then seemed to get it and it got better but over the end of the year and the Christmas holiday, it's gone absolutely back to square one. We had five pairs of wet trousers in an afternoon this weekend.
I take her to the toilet but she's so resistant and screams that she doesn't need a wee-except she's already done one or she'll have one five minutes later in the knickers. She's been a lot better with poos but I feel she's starting to hold them, the nursery phoned me today to say she'd had two accidents and her little bum is red raw because she didn't tell them.
Im worried she's picking up on our frustration and I just don't know what to do. There's so much judgement for kids starting school in nappies but I'm terrified we're heading that way! Please help.