Please send advice.

[Jenny2020]

Hey all
so my little girl has taken to toilet training quite well - over a long period of time one day she just said it's coming and boom pees ever since !!
but now she is holding her poo ! She's always had quite hard poos but I put it down to bananas which we have now stopped -
but she's freaking out when it's comming she won't sit down or even go in a nappy she managed in her sleep the other night ...
health visitor just said she will ask a nursery nurse for advice which is no help as I was one myself for 13 years untill this year ...

anyone else had any success stories

Poo goes to pooland app and no pressure. Ds was nappy free for 4 months in the daytime before a poo made it to the potty. Always in his nap/bedtime nappy. Quick change with no fuss and back to sleep.

We have that app ,
so she's ended up on movicol due to not going for a week and yesterday we had 3 in pull ups but at this point in glad she's going hopefully it becomes easier for her ...
the now pressure part is so hard I feel that is where I am going wrong 🙈

It is so hard not to put pressure on. Ds would still only poo privately as well so if I went into the room or even pass the open bathroom door he'd stop and not go. So i had to work on stepping back and leave him to it.

It really is ,
nothing yesterday but 3 explosions in a pull up the day before -
im hoping she gets over it and just lets it out wherever that may be 😂...
typical we have a week away planned but thinking taking her mind off it may actually help 🙈