I’m wondering if my expectations of my childminder are a bit off here so would appreciate any thoughts.
We potty trained our 2.5yr old in September. He took to it really well and since October he has had less than a handful of wee accidents at home (no poo accidents at all). He asks to go to the toilet himself and can hold it if we are out until we find a toilet.
Issue is, he goes to CM two days each week and every week without fail he has an accident there. When I picked him up today they told me he needed a change of clothes as he did a wee but when I got home my DS told me he did a poo in a pull up. I don’t send him with any so asked CM if he’d also had a poo accident. Turns out she sometimes puts him in pull ups when he is there!
So in my mind, no wonder he is confused and having accidents there. What would you do? We had a chat right at the start of potty training saying that we didn’t want him in pull ups as it was confusing.