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Please help. My 3.3 son is refusing to let us know when he needs to use the potty. If we sit him on it he will happily go. We explain that he needs to let us know and he seems to fully understand but just will NOT do it.

We have tried reward charts, pants but will happily wet/soil himself, tough love etc.
Nothing is working and it's doesn't appear to be clicking.
Any advice or similar stories would be so helpful! Thank you

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Hi totally new to this & this is my first ever post .. basically I have a 5 year old in January and he recently started school in September. But I’m literally at my whits end and a super stressed mum. He’s always suffered with comspiption since birth but he keeps pooing his pants just little marks constantly and says he doesn’t know he’s doing it I don’t know how to encourage he starts using going to the toilet even if he thinks he just wants to trump. It’s getting out of hand but he’s also started weeing himself again a couple of times in day and constantly on a night. He was dry at night for almost a year on a night then boom out of nowhere this has started. I feel so stressed and don’t know what to do as he’s obviously at school now and I don’t want other children picking up on it and bullying him for it. Can anyone give me any advice as I’m literally heart broken for him. I’ve tried rewarding him with sticker charts, Praise taking toys away even telling him of but nothing works and i’m generally starting to worry something may be wrong! I plan on taking him to the doctors over this as it is a a major concern to me and I really can’t carry on like it. His little sister is 3 and is completely toilet trained and never had one poo insidance I just don’t know what to do! Can anyone please give me advice??