I have two boys just turned 3 and 4 and my 4 year old wont get out of pull ups, Iv brought lots of pants for him even Disney ones and he does wear them at home and he will wee in the potty sometimes but he wont poo in it, Iv tried to speak to him and explain and I say that he's 4 noe and he's a big boy who needs to use the potty but he screams and crys if I try make him sit on potty or toilet. I put 4 year old in pull ups for Nursery because I no he wont use the toilet there, he just wont go near it and the nursery teacher said I need to try harder with him at home which made me feel like shit because I do try hard at home. I'm no I must of started trying to potty train him far to late but I am trying to make up for it. And my 3 year old is the most stubborn child ever ! And he refuses to go near the potty, he just wants his pull ups on. Can anyone help me? Or give me some advice, I feel so down because most kids in my child's class are potty trained and he's not :( and with my 3 year old starting nursery in January I really want him to be starting potty training to. I just want them out of pull ups in the day, there 3 and 4 now 🙈 x