I know this has been done to death and back again but I'm at the end of my tether here. DD is 3 years 3 months and just flat out refuses to use the potty or wee on the toilet. If I put her in pants she just continually wets herself and gets really upset 😠The HV says persevere! the Nurse at GP says she's not ready. I'm worried that she starts nursery in September and all the kids are going to make fun of her for being in nappies :( Any suggestions gratefully received 