4th accident today

[thenoisytimetravelstudent]

DD (3) is toilet trained since last August but I've just cleaned up the fourth accident today
She is tired I know and emotional with that. Hubby thinks it's bad behaviour - I'm not sure because she had the last one in her sleep! What are the symptoms of a kidney infection in a toddler?
I've returned to work after maternity leave in Jan & still finding my feet with a routine that's works. I thought that we had all adjusted now I'm doubting that too.
I don't know... i was on the edge of sleep so apologies if this is rambling

Was a symptom of constipation for dd1, bowel got so overloaded there was no room for her bladder to fill. Is all well on poop side of potty training?

She did poo today, 2 minutes later the 3rd accident happened generally she goes every two days but sometimes there is a 'performance' suggesting constipation

Maybe worth giving meals tomorrow guaranteed to clear out any poops (corn on cob is a safe bet for dd1) and consider whether gp or out of hours to rule out uti (take urine specimen with you) and/or get kids laxative prescription. Dd1 got super grumpy too when constipated so could all be related.