At my wits end wih 8yo dd. She potty trained well at 3, dry by night by 4. In the past year or so she appears to have stopped wiping after poos. I have went through showing her how to do it again and again, we have tried moist wipes/no moist wipes, she never calls me to tell me she has pooed as I assume she is embarrassed.
She smells despite daily bath/shower 
as she tends to poo at school.
I don't know how many times I am just chucking pants as they're ruined.
Any tips? I've made her a chart which I am going to add wiping onto but doubt it will make a difference