Help 3yr dd won't pee

[ladythatlunches]

So she has just turned 3, this was the 3rd attempt at potty training! First 2 times refused to wear pants gp near potty etc.So we go to the shop we buy peppa pig pants a pink potty she was so excited.
Day 1 Monday sat on potty, huge Praise but no wee or poop all day.
Day 2 sat on potty again praise but no wee or poop all dayy till about 4pm even though pumped full of water. She sat on potty done a wee huge praise a sticker and a pack of buttons
. Day 3 nursery off she went in pants, pick her up at 2 no wee nothing. Jumping around crying saying she wants nappy on. I try to carry on .. ahe had a bath nappy ob for bed and practically flooded the nappy in bed.
Day4. Loads of wee in pants and poop don't like potty
Day 5 today went to nursery again, and again with holding her wee. Pick her up put her on potty she ia crying ahe doesn't like it.She with held her wee from 6am till 4pm I just can't see her so upset anymore I said I would give it a week but she is actually not weeing, I don't want to confuse her aa she actually will wear knickers and sit on potty now BUT I just don't know whaty to do. Please advise

We had a similar problem solved by putting a nappy on whilst sat on the toilet. We eventually loosened the nappy until she no longer needed it.

We haven't been as succesful with poo though. She will hold her poo until she has a nappy on whilst sat on the toilet. We just went 2 days without a poo after her 4th birthday when we tried to persuade her, but the risk of trauma or making herself ill is too high. She will get there, and whilst I am envious of those who have toilet trained easily, I have learned to be patient.

Thank you. You just never know what to do for the beat. I have 2 older children who got the jist quickly so dont know what to do