DS is 3.2 and has been dry during the day from about 2.9. We left it fairly late but after a push from nursery he got it fairly quickly with the bribe of chocolate buttons as stickers held no interest. He has no SEN.
He wears a night time nappy and will generally only poo in this after his bath. He has never soiled himself since the very early days of training. We are leaving this for now (although advice welcome here too!)
HOWEVER, he will almost always hold his wee until he is really bursting, so that when he tells me or concedes he needs a wee after me asking, I either have to find a loo immediately or find a tree/alleyway. This is despite reminders when he is clutching himself, hopping up and down etc.
If I attempt to force him on the potty, he will fight it and he is tall for his age. I also think the forcing is counter-productive as he needs to tell me or whoever is with him.
So, any advice? Should I back off completely and not remind him and accept the wet pants or go back to the chocolate buttons for a while (he will wee if one is on offer). It's just so frustrating as he was doing so well and recently we seem to have gone backwards. No life changes. Thanks.