When he is with me, I will do it for him. However, he is at Maternelle in France (sort of infant school), and they were expected to be potty trained by the time they started in September. He is fine with wees now, but he only does mornings and tended to poo in the afternoon at home.
As the school is small, they are ok with changing clothes (he has a spare set of pants and trousers in his bag). However they are not allowed to touch the children, so he is not properly wiped.
Today DS came home in his spare trousers, and there was quite a mess in his soiled pants, so i thought i had better check his bottom and it was caked in shit, in between the cheeks. (sorry if TMI). He was not that bothered and it didn't look sore so i don't think it had been like that for long.
The poo question has not really raised it's head at maternelle. The TA said they quite often come home with poo-ey pants. (I expect a few skids but not as much as DS had.)
So i was told i can send some baby wipes with him. Do you think I should get some Kan-doo wipes for him.
how do i teach him to actually wipe properly?
At home his poos ar fairly solid "log like" so there is not too much mess. (I have been known to find the odd log lying around the garden!!)