My son has started wetting himself on purpose when I'm having cuddles with my other son. It's the only time he wets himself. I know I'm not helping because I have to get up and turn my attention to him to clean him up. Anybody else had this problem and how did you solve it - HV suggested ignoring him but how can you do that when he'll be sat in soaking wet pants on sofa etc. At my wits end because it's also having knock on effect with my other son cos he then gets jealous that I get up to attend to my other son and I feel guilty and torn in two.