hi all looking for some major help my little boy is 4 and is dry through the day has no problem going to the toilet for a wee but when it comes to the other he holds on to and wont go unless he has a nappy on hes litterally so frightened of going to the toilet for one he starts panicing so i give in a put a nappy on him for night just so he can have a number 2 .im just wondering has anybody else had this and what did you do as hes 4 hes starting full time school in september and im so worried hes going to make himself poorly as i no for sure if he needs it at school he will just hold it in .is there any dvds like cartoon ones about going to the toilet or anything like that i will try anything at the moment xx