Help! A few months a go i decided to try and potty train my 2 1/2 year old, he seemed ready and had already done the odd wee in his potty, we started off well but soon became apparent that he didn't have the bladder control quite yet so we had a chat and he asked to go back in nappies (i was given very conflicting advice about this but as i had a small baby i didn't want to upset him for no reason) then a week ago he asked to sit on the potty so we thought we would try again. after a few promising days he went completely against it and went into melt down at the mere mention of the potty, we were at my in laws at the time and he asked to go back into nappies much to my frustration i gave in (i didn't want to but felt defeated) i don't want to confuse him but at the same time i can't put myself or him through this again and it not work! i have tried stickers, chocolate buttons, special big boy pants and feel lost as to what i am doing wrong, please tell me i am not the only one that has failed attempts at this, do i force him to sit on the potty or wait a good few mnths before trying again? xxxxxx any help/advice will be gratefully appreciated xxxx