DD3 is 3.5, and has no interest at all in using the toilet. She has chosen special knickers, we have a sticker chart on the bathroom door, she will sit on the toilet but hold it in then flOid the floor. She has used the toilet a few times, sometimes she's asked to get out of the bath and she's weed, sometimes I've been lucky and caught one when I've sat her there.
This morning we did the school run and her nappy was dry so I thought I'd take the chance - I asked if she could be a big girl and use the toilet as we were running put of nappies, she said she wanted to and chose some knickers. She sat on the loo 3 times in the morning with no result - I had to put the washing out and tried her one more time with nothing. 30 seconds after I went outside she called me in as she'd flooded the floor with the huge wee she'd been holding in all morning (wish my pelvic floor hung on that long!). She knew what she'd done, she went to the toilet to wipe her bottom after, but is she really not recognising the signs or just trying to be stubborn? Support from any other late toilet trainers welcome! (other 2 were much easier!)