I don't mean in the 1st few days, we are trying (again!) this weekend and I have just cancelled all plans bar a few trips to places where it doesnt matter too much! But looking forward, I am not optimistic re quick success, so say 3-4 weeks down the line I am meant to be meeting a friend at soft play but surely I can't do that if Dd might pee in the balls??! There are sOme places where I just really feel Dd weeing is not on, but likewise we can't cancel all plans forever!