is this really bad of me?

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Little one 3 1/2 years old always does poo in nappy every night as soon as i close door when playing bed

after we have had potty time, after milk and after stories and teeth

always when playing in bed so I have to go and change nappy agter an hour or so and then he ends up fetting to late much much later and all a stress

so last few nights (i know i know you can't force a poo but he is always going every eve same time)

...last few nights i have said no stories until poo

he screams and cries and screams and is so upset but then runs to potty to do poo and does so quickly...a small one but usually enought to not go pooing in eve in nappy

is that so bad of me!?

i am not forcing poo - but time he does poo if that makes sense...though am sure ofgr him feels like forcing

having said that he is one boy who has always been an upwards battle about everything

please tell me am not so bad doing this?

have no other solution!

It means he's got good control. He'll do it automatically in a few days without the histrionics.

but it has been since before xmas that he does this

since around oct/nov

before was doing in sleep

but now when playing before falling asleep

also same with wee

have noticed he goes three times a day

so maybe has good control and lazy!!!???

should i continue to force him to go before bed as he always seem to produce something when i do so

i am forcing him to go around 30 mins before he has been usualyl doing it in nappy

I wish I could do that! Sounds like you have it all under control to me!

thanks for supportive message as really needed it otnight

tonight all went well with poo then bad after that!