any mediums/spiritualist/someone who knows about these things around?

[chimchar]

will try to keep this concise!

got chatting to a lady yesterday who as it turns out, was a medium. we were talking about hauntings and ghosts etc...

my mum died seven weeks ago. it was so very sudden and very unexpected. i told her this and said i hoped to get some kind of sign or something from my mum. she told me "that when someone passes suddenly, they often don't know that they have actually "passed over""

i don't know why, but this is really bothering me..can anyone shed some light on this, or expand or point me in the right direction of a book to read etc..

thanks.

anyone? [lonely!]

that's not true at all, particularly among the elderly. it's most often children who can become confused about their own deaths, because they don't understand what death is.

please, please, don't hope to get a sign of anything from your mum. she's in a better place.

thanks for your reply expat.

Any mediums around had a sad experience at the weekend tried to save a man but he passed away I just want closure and i have always had a gift just dont know why its not there can anyone help me please.xx

Sorry Chimcar didnt mean to post on your thread Im sorry to hear about your mum, Im sure she knows she is in a better place and looking down on you ,im sorry I can not offer you any other advice except I hope someone can offer you something more than I can.xx