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Please if you can tomorrow spare a thought or say a prayer

44 replies

Beauregard · 16/06/2008 21:05

For my only sister
It is 5 years tomorrow since she committed suicide
As time goes on people seem to forget

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ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 16/06/2008 21:06

You are both in my thoughts PFNM. I'm so sorry xx

hazygirl · 16/06/2008 21:08

thinking of you.so sorryxx

Ambi · 16/06/2008 21:10

Thinking of you. So sorry this has happened.

TurkeyLurkey · 16/06/2008 21:12

Thats a sad post Pelvic.I will think of you and your sister,xx.

cyberseraphim · 16/06/2008 21:14

Nothing is forgotten - life goes on but what has happened remains. I'm thinking of you both.

Beauregard · 16/06/2008 21:21

Thankyou
She would have been 35 now

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piratecat · 16/06/2008 21:27

i will think of her pelvic.

sorry for your loss xxxxxxxx

Beauregard · 16/06/2008 21:27

Thanks pirate
x

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ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 16/06/2008 21:29

What a waste of a young life. I bet you miss her everyday.

Beauregard · 16/06/2008 21:32

I do miss her everyday despite not having much of a relationship with her when she was alive,her "head" wouldnt let her and she couldnt cope with people.
On darker days i think she had the right idea.

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Yorkiegirl · 16/06/2008 21:32

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Beauregard · 16/06/2008 21:35

Yorkie you know better than anyone what it is to suddenly lose a loved one,i wish you didnt.

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Beauregard · 16/06/2008 22:15

I shall drive to the cemetry with dd2 after the school run in the morning.Hope i can get some nice flowers and the vase has room.

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MaryBS · 16/06/2008 22:22

Thats really sad... will be thinking of you both tomorrow

NigellaTheUndomesticGoddess · 16/06/2008 22:24

will do.
be kind to yourself.

edam · 16/06/2008 22:24

I'm so very sorry.

youcannotbeserious · 16/06/2008 22:27

Thinking of you and your sister.

beeny · 16/06/2008 22:28

Am so sorry will pray for your sister now was about to skip a prayer as in bed (am muslim) but this has made me get up.

frasersmummy · 16/06/2008 22:31

pelvic ..

I know its horrid when you feel like no-one aknowledges your sister anymore.
people are odd.. they dont forget, they just dont know what to say or how to say it.

I hope tomrrow passes peacefully for you

remember to take time to aknowledge your grief tomorrow.. dont try to bottle it up

I will be thinking of you and your family tomorrow

sending you hugs

Beauregard · 16/06/2008 22:35

Thankyou

Beeny-Much appreciated thankyou,not sure what i believe in but i know before she died my sister had turned to religion for comfort.She felt she was so unloveable i guess she thought that 'god'may be able to love her.

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MaryBS · 17/06/2008 06:59

PFNM, my belief is that God DID/does love her, but like many people, including your sister, its hard sometimes to feel loved, because you don't love yourself. You yourself know she wasn't unloveable, because you loved her.

I hope and pray she is at peace now. I hope and pray you can gain some peace from this too.

piratecat · 17/06/2008 07:23

Pelvic,

weird, I was just sorting some jewellery stuff out as going away today.

Found my hearts keyring. Just felt it resonated somehow.

my door is always open here. j getting wed 2morrow, so me off.

I will think of you today and hope we can catch up soon.

xx

Hallgerda · 17/06/2008 07:31

I'll be thinking of you, pelvicfloornomore. I had a friend who committed suicide at around the same age seventeen years ago - such a waste.

Beauregard · 17/06/2008 12:33

Thankyou for the messages its nice to know that someone is thinking of her.

None of my 'friends'have remembered
It is sad because she was so worth remembering
I am on you tube playing some of her favourite songs and songs that remind me of her,i am blubbing all over the keyboard and feeling very shit.

Seems worse this year

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Beauregard · 17/06/2008 12:35

Wishing you and L strength pirate x

Sorry about your friend Hallgerda

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