well it's not urgent in any real sense of the word
but I am going to a Quaker prayer thing for some friends in nearly an hour
and I don't know what they do or if there is anything I should know
I just rang up because I will have to pick up dd2 from nursery and didn't know how long it would last and they said oh no matter, it's not very formal
I am high church C of E. I understand formal
informality leaves me floundering a bit
please reassure me I don't come across like frowning po-faced old Anglican