Any witches or spiritualists that can help with this?

[GwenSaturn]

Bit of a random one, but has anyone felt like they've had a curse put on them?

I try to be a good person and I am very blessed in many ways, with a good husband and wonderful dc and fantastic friends, good job etc, but I have had so much tragedy and so many unfortunate events happen in my life.

Whenever something good happens it's always followed by something really bad. My friends always say that I MUST have had my share of bad luck now and yet still more comes.

Could I somehow be attracting this bad luck? I'm quite a positive person and try to do nice things for people, but the most devastating and random things keep on happening.

Is this a thing? Can I somehow stop this??

No it's not a thing. The nicest people can have unexplained runs of bad luck OR if the bad luck isn't health related or related to members of your family, it might be that you have formed some habits in the way you live your life.

I don't mean that you're not nice and positive but in the way that you carry out your business.

Do you run your life in an organised way? Or is it disorganised?

No, I'm very organised. My DH and I live healthy active normal lives in a fairly nice area.

We've had a lot of death and illness with friends and family - freak accidents, cancer, random victims of crime. I lost nearly all of my immediate family, one after the other, in the space of 7 years for various reasons at various ages.

I've had two traumatic births, after the second one the surgeon said he'd never had anything like that and it was surprising given I was healthy and young with no medical issues. I was just one of those in the small odds. I thought, of course I was!

Our flights are always delayed/cancelled. Our appointments moved/cancelled. Trains late/cancelled. Our builder went under mid build.

There are many many other incidences. It just seems relentless sometimes.

Who would want to hex you though?

I honestly don't know!

My mum and dad once got talked into doing a ouiji board at our house by their friends. I was about 12 at the time and that's when things started to go wrong. A long shot but it plays on my mind sometimes.

They were childhood sweethearts who split up about a year after and have been throughly miserable since with never-ending bad luck ever since.

I think it's more a series of unfortunate events. If you think you are cursed you will put everything down to that because you have convinced yourself so.

Do you attribute all the good in your life to an external force?

In life good and bad things happen and not necessarily in equal measures.

As a Witch I don't think you've been hexed.