first time ever. very interesting in some areas including me crossing the irish sea (we go by boat not plane), mortgage arrangements and papes signed (our house is newly on the market again) even the fact that a "gentleman speaks uncouthly to me and belittles me" (dh) She had a gentleman spirit come through to say he's with me a lot of the time and he's a fatherly figure. He was strong and a fighter and has made himself known to me - he will do it again soon. She got the name James. He died quite suddenly after being ill. I initially thought of my father who fitted the bill but his name was Danny.