Calling Paps - can you interpret a bit of a dream

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Ok last night I dreamed that my DH had an affair with this woman whom he doesn't even know. She is way, way older than him. She was goading me in the dream but DH wasn't 100% into this affair. She is quite heavy and DH prefers slim ladies so I used this against her. She was seemed to be the dominant person and sort of keeping him against his will. I used all my powers to win him back and was getting there when I woke up.

Any ideas.

The other bits in my dream I looked up on Dreammoods and they make sense but this bit is a bit of a misnomer.

???

This woman to me appears to be manipulating and egging you both on. Perhaps this is two sides of a different case... Like being made to belief something which you are not sure of. Good to hear you used your powers in th dream - this is a sign that you are strong and ready for encounter situations in dreams and in RL.

Did you look at weight in dreamoods? Of the woman. They say weight is responsibility, but it could also indicate something is not attractive to you or even a power journey you need to make in learning about sex and spirituality.

Does that make any comparisons for you? :)

Thanks Paps, it does make sense when I put it with the other bits.

I think the dream may be about your fears for the future, and possibly that you feel you are changing or becoming different in some way which will have an effect on your relationship?

The 'older' woman could be a projection of an imagined version of you in the future, maybe one which you fear a bit, and the normal you in the dream who was getting him back is your real self who is looking forwards in your life at your future together and knows that it will all be all right really.

Of course I could be talking out of my *rse!