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prayers, candles, chants, hand holding for Aillidh

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psychomum5 · 29/06/2012 16:21

No news at the moment since the last update.

I will post it again here in case anyone missed it tho.

"Aillidh update: slight improvement in xray. Bronchoscope and lavage done. She is comfortable and sedated. Plan is to leave her on vent a few days and find out what is going on inside her lungs with results of bronchoscope/lavage. Please, please keep praying. Your prayers, thoughts, vibes and anything are keeping her and us going. We are buoyed by everyone's strength and hope. Her grandmother is here now and her maternal grandparents will be here on Monday."

this was posted by expat at 13.54.

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DameIceAndaSlicePlease · 29/06/2012 20:27

Expat I, like many others have not posted before but have been lurking and checking (numerous) times a day on Aillidh's progress. I have no words that could possibly offer any comfort in this most terrible time for you but you, your beautiful daughter and the rest of your family are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. May God give you all much needed strength, keep fighting little one.

Stinkyfeet · 29/06/2012 20:31

I don't really know what to say - there are no words. I've thought about you all day. People don't realise that these things don't just happen to 'other people'; in the blink of an eye it's your child and life is never the same again, whatever the outcome.

Love and strength xx.

Pomegranate · 29/06/2012 20:32

Prayers and thoughts for your beautiful girl and your family x

TheOneWithTheHair · 29/06/2012 20:40

Wishing with all my might for little Aillidh. X

PizzaSlut · 29/06/2012 20:44

I don't know the back story but this has played a little on my mind all day.

Please fight little lady and sending strength to your parents during the next few days.

FoofyShmooffer · 29/06/2012 20:47

Expat x

Rumours · 29/06/2012 20:50

Candle is lit, thinking of you all lots xx

ZeroFucksGiven · 29/06/2012 20:50

*Acute Myeloid Leukaemia - Aillidh's Search For A Donor
We now have a name for her nemesis! It is the human metapneumo virus she has had for a while that is the most likely source of her continued respiratory problems.

The graft is trying desperately to work, although chimera of bone marrow aspirate and trephine biopsy will tell us more, let us hope and pray that it is 100% donor. Her consultant believes the virus might be prohibiting healthy engraftment. She is being given a new anti-viral to hopefully help her, and with everyone's prayers and thoughts, this will help, too. She is peaceful and comfortable at present and sleeping, which will help her, too. A's consultant has far from given up hope and nor have we.

Thank you all so much.

To those of our friends who have experienced the loss of their children, I pray to them, too, to help Aillidh in her time of need with the immeasurable love and boundless strength that is the domain of the young, and know that they are at her side in spirit, never far from our thoughts.

'When the hurly burly's done,
When the battle's lost and won*

psychomum5 · 29/06/2012 20:50

this was just posted...

"Acute Myeloid Leukaemia - Aillidh's Search For A Donor · 1,754 like this.
4 minutes ago ·
We now have a name for her nemesis! It is the human metapneumo virus she has had for a while that is the most likely source of her continued respiratory problems.

The graft is trying desperately to work, although chimera of bone marrow aspirate and trephine biopsy will tell us more, let us hope and pray that it is 100% donor. Her consultant believes the virus might be prohibiting healthy engraftment. She is being given a new anti-viral to hopefully help her, and with everyone's prayers and thoughts, this will help, too. She is peaceful and comfortable at present and sleeping, which will help her, too. A's consultant has far from given up hope and nor have we.

Thank you all so much.

To those of our friends who have experienced the loss of their children, I pray to them, too, to help Aillidh in her time of need with the immeasurable love and boundless strength that is the domain of the young, and know that they are at her side in spirit, never far from our thoughts.

'When the hurly burly's done,
When the battle's lost and won"

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psychomum5 · 29/06/2012 20:51

our prayers and love and hope are holding them all.....we must not give up. They are not giving up....

Aillidh is certainly not!!

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cupofteaplease · 29/06/2012 20:51

I'm praying for your beautiful daughter. I hope you find the inner strength you need and deserve, and I wish so much that Aillidh is comfortable and feels the love that surrounds her. Best wishes from my family and I. Oh, and I hope the unhelpful consultant falls down a lift shaft x

JustFabulous · 29/06/2012 20:54

^^^ holding you all up ^^^^

halfbabyhalfbiscuit · 29/06/2012 20:55

Keep going brave little Ailidh! We're all praying, hoping and thinking of you. We're still here, everyone one of us willing you on darling girl xxxx

QuickLookBusy · 29/06/2012 20:58

Thank goodness the Drs know what they are dealing with now.

Thinking and hoping little Aillidh starts to get stronger.x

Northernlurker · 29/06/2012 20:58

psycho - don't worry. We're standing firm behind them and we won't be giving up.

StateofConfusion · 29/06/2012 20:58

I've never prayed so much, not even when my own ds was in nicu. Aillidh deserves a miracle, I pray for 100% donor, healthy engraftment and these bastars bugs viruses and infections to leave her well alone, so she can go home and be a 9yr old, a daughter and a sister and a happy healthy child! Come on aillidh, you can do this! For now stay comfortable.

BuddhaBelly · 29/06/2012 21:02

Just lit a candle. Thinking of you expat and your precious dd

FrothyOM · 29/06/2012 21:06

Praying for healthy engraftment. I hope Ailidh has a comfortable night. Love to all her family. xxx

Will be sending more prayers, thoughts and vibes in the morning.

giraffesCantFitInThePalace · 29/06/2012 21:07

LOVELY LOVELY KIND MNERS, PLEASE HOLD OFF DONATING TO PP FOR NOW - THEY HAVE FREAKED OUT ABOUT SUDDEN INFLUX OF DOSH. WILL PHONE THEM. THANK YOU ALL :)

JustFabulous · 29/06/2012 21:10

Oh crumbs. Will they let you take it out to use?

OhDoAdmitMrsDeVere · 29/06/2012 21:10

I know Billie is by her side. I know she is. I can see her smiling.

giraffesCantFitInThePalace · 29/06/2012 21:13

MrsD we were praying over As bed this morning and expat said she felt Billie, my dd Rosie and our friends wee boy who died of a brain tumour (we both went to his funeral) with Aillidh x

And she often talks about your bday card :)

FrothyOM · 29/06/2012 21:14

Mrsdevere, I'm thinking of you too. xxx

OhDoAdmitMrsDeVere · 29/06/2012 21:15

I am glad.
Really glad.
Bless our beautiful children.

pinkpyjamas · 29/06/2012 21:15

We're standing right there alongside you, Expat - every minute of every day.
So glad to hear that Aillidh is comfortable and able to sleep.