I have 4 cats - 3 males and a female. Elder male and the female have been 'done', 2 younger males are yet to be. One of the young males behaves rather strangely.
I know he is male, I have looked twice and after his odd behaviour started, I copped a quick feel just to be sure! .
He doesn't have the more round face of the male. He looks very female iyswim. I am sure most people will go 'It's a cat ffs!!' but they really do have a male or female look about them, and he looks female!!!!!
Also, he does that thing that females do when they are in heat. Very purry and vocal, lifting of tail, rubbing himself on the floor and the sofas etc, spraying, orming about! The other night he wrapped himself around my arm and I had a hell of a job to shake him loose. ? It?s not the aggressive ?lemee out, y?bitch, I?m horny? attitude of the unneutered male, it really is more ?do me now, big boy?.
Now is he gay or a hermaphrodite or something?
I have no problem with it - never let it be said I am intolerant of my pets' sexuality. I?m very liberal. I had a pair of gay rats, who lived in a cardboard condo in a 3-story cage, I strongly suspected my gerbils of being more than just good friends and I shall never forget the tormented love triangle that was my male netherland dwarf rabbit, my female mackerel tabby cat and my little ginger guinea pig.
It would be interesting to know if anyone has experience of something similar.