My reply:
"Soul-destroying, not sole. Sole-destroying is when fisherman catch lemon sole or Dover sole, or when you go hiking in bare feet."
I just couldn't help myself. Sole for soul, bare for bear, and all the other things we've talked about. They are not difficult words! If you have O-Levels/GCSEs and do not have learning difficulties, this level of spelling mistakes in otherwise perfectly capable adults is just unacceptable. I would be so embarrassed to make such stupid mistakes in basic words. There are a LOT of people who need to read more - read actual books, not things on the internet where you're constantly exposed to other people's poor spelling. What on earth are the schools churning out these days!