I was planning on inviting the whole class, but she said quite firmly today "It's my party mummy, not yours and I should get to decide who comes".
Does she have a point?
I'm paying for the dam thing. DH is refusing to get involved.
For what it's worth, there seems to be no party etiquette in her class, ie. inviting all the girls/all the class etc, some people are invited, some aren't, and that's how it goes. She's gong to be 5.