My dd would like a party for her 14th birthday. everyone is having discos, but she doesn't really enjoy them (I actually secretly think not many of them do!) so I was thinking we could hire a hall (school hall available, lovely and cheap!) then get a salsa teacher (tons of them locally) to come and give them a lesson. Then a nice buffet supper and home. Does that sound the sort of thing your 14 year old might like? A lot of her friends dance (although not salsa) so there'll be a core group to get things going!