dd would like to invite 2 girls she plays with in the close that dont go to her school, do i also need to invite there younger sibling?

[chocolatespiders]

dd will be 5 .....

dd plays with these girls after school, there 3 year old siblings also play out so does dd need to invite them...

i really dont want to cause a row neighbour hood dispute....

one of the girls also has a 8 year old brother... so cant really leave him out either... arrghhhhhh you could go on and on...

Send a 'girly' invite, the boy won't want to come

You could go on and on. So don't feel you have to invite siblings. Perhaps send some birthday cake home for them?

it is a pirate party...

will def send them some cake...good idea...

one of the girls didnt invite dd to her party and dd didnt mind one bit... i just wouldnt want people to think bad thoughts of us

Hope it all goes well chocolatespiders. I think making a token gesture like cake/spare sweets etc will keep the little ones and the older brother happy. Mine are past that stage (relieved emoticon) so really have been there and got the t-shirt. You'll run yourself ragged trying to keep everyone happy. At least you know you have given it a lot of thought, and come to a decision. Everyone else can go whistle!!!

thankyou....

I am becoming a bit obbsessed with the pirate theme now so should be plenty left over