40 with toddler and 4 months old

[ByLilacMember]

I'd like to celebrate 40 a bit but wondering what could be nice with a tiny baby and 2 and a half year old? Maybe about 8 adults, would need to involve food. All suggestions welcome. Don't want this big birthday to entirely pass me by
TIA

Would you consider having a nice UK holiday together just the four of you? My partner and I have just come back from a week in Wales with our nearly two year old and four month old and we had a lovely time. Or if you wanted a bigger occasion with more people could you Airbnb a big lodge or something for the weekend, have a grocery shop ordered and earmark some nice restaurants, set it up with balloons and banners? You haven’t said when exactly your birthday is but if it’s in December they sometimes decorate them all Christmassy 🥰 I’ll be 40 in May and my children are similar ages to yours so I’ll keep an eye out to see if anyone has any better suggestions that I can steal 🤣