Need some emotional support

[Anonmaly]

I’m 34 and retired early due to epilepsy and side effects from my other two illnesses. I saved over 4 million USD for retirement, but now 3/4 of it has been spent on my mother because she keeps borrowing money from me and my grandmother. We already lent her a lot for cancer treatment. But she doesn’t get a job. My family does not allow me to work and tells me to just deal with things as they stand. Not sure what to do about my life because they just let her borrow my money and my father is nowhere to be found because he met a new woman and is cheating with her. He doesn’t care about how my mom’s family feels at all

retired but not allowed to work and your family took your money? How are they letting her have your money?

What job did you do to save $4,000,000 by the age of 34? Asking for a friend 🥸

To put it short, my mom is Asian and Asian families generally suck the life out of you. They guilt trip you into feeling bad for family members with cancer and take your money.

I’m obviously not revealing that to a stranger and I’ve reported your reply for solicitation.

Bank robbery? Drug dealing? People smuggling? So many options

Except it isn't as I'm not paying for or offering goods/services.

Touchy, which gives me all the answer needed 😉

if you have that amount of cash stop letting others steal it from you.

Different culture here but same story - only solution is to be the bad guy and cut it off, unfortunately.