Just found out my mum died 10 years ago.

[Juecat]

Hi, I just stumbled across my mums death today online whilst researching my family tree, 10 years later. My siblings didn’t tell me or my aunt (her sister 85yo). I don’t know what I did wrong I really don’t and have tried before to sort it but got nowhere. I don’t know how to act or feel tbh. Pretty gobsmacked.
There’s rights and wrongs and I think that you’ve gotta be a hard person to not pass this news on. It’s wrong to keep it to yourself. There’ll never be closure. 😞

Were you brought up thinking someone else was your mum?

Sorry to hear this op. It must have been a shock. Hugs and

'm sorry too , what a shock for you.

That’s really awful, I feel for you. You’ve probably been wondering about her all this time. Whatever has happened between you should Have been told at the time

Were you estranged or not brought up by her? I’m sorry for your shock.

What is the back story?

Bless you.

I take it you were estranged from your family.

So sorry 💐

I'm sorry for you loss.

Again I'm assuming you had been estranged from her and your siblings for a while?

Bless you and so sorry.