well you were right ladies, took them away and after a few accidents we have just about cracked it.
Only a few incidents when ds has woken in night and wet only slightly. This morning he woke at 6am and shouted me and said he woke and has the urge to go a bit came out but he stopped and went to the loo.
I think the advice was def right - if they are not ready, they are simply not ready, not a problem but when they are ready sometimes just the nightly routine of putting them in PJ Pants makes them lazy
Were going on hols shortly no PJ Pants hooray!!! but will be taking the waterproof mattress cover