Ds started at his junior school over a year ago and I have struggled a little to find out who his closest friends are, ones that he would like to invite back on a playdate.
I know that there is one friend in particular that he likes and would like to invite regularly.
The problem however is the reaction off the lads mom every time I have ever asked.
Her reply is always we will see if we can arrange a day, or I have to take my daughter to her dance lesson and pick her up as well, we will see about in the holidays etc.
I get very down about this reaction and am not sure what the problem is.
I have been successful on occasions on arranging one with her but its quite difficult.
I know she gets busy taking the older daughter here and there but don,t know how that affects her ds coming to ours she can pick him at a time to suit she doesn,t live far or I can drop him off at a time to suit.
Would you give up on this woman and her ds.
My mom thinks that maybe she just doesn,t want to get into the whole playdate thing because she doesn,t want to have children at hers as well.
I can honestly say that I don,t expect people to return invites.
Please would you just forget it and move onto someone else.