no I didn't and to save time incase the cat takes ages, I am really truly sorry for being so nasty QoQ. I am a total bitch, and I know it and although we all have different views (would make us boring if we didnt) I really should have respected your decision, even if I didnt agree with it and supported u as I'm sure you really are a superb mother, your lads are gorgeous and obviously well cared for, and I really shouldn't take out my insecurities on you, and I am so sorry.