everyone says ignore tantrums but i find a have huge anger/grudge and sulk all day

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at my todler 2 and 4 months who hits bites kicks me and screams at me at mo

i ghet so upset at his behaviour like today i just said stay with daddy

i know i am wrong but i take it personally and get hurt

anyone else behave like me? OR AM I ALONE THE WORST MUM EVER?

tips on not getting affected by it all/ how can one ignore? and get back to treating the little one as nothing happened..m way of teaching and he is getting the hang of it - is to see he is hurting me physically and mentally a lot

i cant ismly let everything wash away

but means i spend most days sulking after he hits me

I don't think this is a tantrum, he is hurting you. so you shouldn't ignore it. Do you know why he does it ?

NO IDEA