Friends of DH have just had their first baby. The dad commented to DH that he isn't sleeping well at night but seems to sleep well if he is placed on a pillow on the sofa.
When DH told me I was .
DH asked him if they stayed with him and what if they fell asleep. "we won't" was the answer .
Anyone who's had a newborn knows how easy it is to drop off without realising it, just from sheer exhaustion.
This is one of the things that contributes most to cot deaths, is it not? DH didn't feel like he should pass comment to them.
Its not just me who thinks they're being stupid is it?