I've decided babies don't do civilised (yes I know, taken me this long!). He is at his best at 7.30am when he's fed, watered and wants to play, or at 11 when it is not quite lunchtime, or any time of the day that is not right in the middle of his nap! he is not at his best when he's just flaked out at 8.30 for his daily nap (1 hour if i want to sleep, 3 hours if I want to go out!) and if we are going then I have to get him up and out the house by 9.40!.
So do I leave him to sleep and miss the baby group we both enjoy (when he will wake at 10.00 and be cranky all day) or do i wake him and go and hope the hour kip will be enough today?